When I'm in the glimpse of my brokenhearted dilemma, I thought of two things:what if I don't worth his love for me to fell this way or if there's something wrong with what I'm doing that's why he cannot see right through me...
Seeing myself in the situation like that makes me feel so anxious and frustrated.
And because of that, me together with other people like in the same situation that i had asked so many questions to ourselves like there's no tomorrow.
"Why can't be us?"
"What can I do to make you love me?"
"What should I do to make you stay?"
"To all the people you see and meet,why not me you choose to love?"
So many questions...
What is the basic factors that we really looking for when it comes of loving someone?
-is that the assurance of that person feel the same way for us?
-is that the risk and sacrifices that we done for them to feel the same way for us?
-is that the rush of looking for a belonging of someone?
-or is that the fulfilling of something that is not really true to us?
But What if the reasons why that person cannot open himself/herself to you?
-that person is not into you(not interested)
-past issues
-fear of the same mistakes over and over again
-committed to other things/someone
-or he/she is not really feel the same way cuz' he cannot make himself/herself love you....because he/she really don't
My love realization in these situation is this :
"you cannot make someone love you,if that person won't"
What do you do then? force him/ to feel something that is not true and make the relationship drowned in lies and reconsideration?
it's like putting him/her in a dog chain and strained that person to death!
It's not love, its selfishness!
So better learned from this mistakes and better be satisfied of what we had in life!
then choose to be happy!
hope this song can help!1LOVE-ANGELA
I Can't Make You Love Me
by Bonnie Raitt
Turn down the lights, turn down the bed
Turn down these voices inside my head
Lay down with me, tell me no lies
Just hold me close, don't patronize - don't patronize me
Chorus: cause I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel something it won't
Here in the dark, in these lonely hours
I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power
But you won't, no you won't
'cause I can't make you love me, if you don't
I'll close my eyes, then I won't see
The love you don't feel when you're holding me
Morning will come and I'll do what's right
Just give me till then to give up this fight
And I will give up this fight
Chorus: cause I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel something it won't
Here in the dark, in these lonely hours
I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power
But you won't, no you won't
'cause I can't make you love me, if you don't
I Cant Make You Love Me - Bonnie Raitt
